Dabbling with discomfort

Dabbling with discomfort

December 31, 20191 mins

Maximizing pleasure doesn’t need practice. It’s hardwired into our system. Tolerating pain, however, is a different ball game. Notice how I swapped maximizing with tolerating. Maximizing pain fits…

Goodbye to Vitamin I

Goodbye to Vitamin I

December 26, 20192 mins

Earlier this year I had written about unlocking a superpower, a post that tantalizingly starts with me ‘visualizing away’ a raging headache, a feat that sadly turns out to be a one-time wonder. If you…

Planes and trains

Planes and trains

December 17, 20191 mins

An old school friend (M) gave the following reason for giving up meat : “One fine day I felt that I had eaten enough chicken for a lifetime. So I turned vegetarian.” My feelings towards planes and…

Underachiever’s Manifesto

Underachiever’s Manifesto

December 09, 20191 mins

As a tribute to this post’s theme, I’m just going to share excerpts of this not-so-famous 2006 book. As opposed to providing a commentary on what this topic means to me. For obvious reasons, it’s…

The tough boss framework

The tough boss framework

December 08, 20191 mins

We’ve all had tough bosses in our careers. I don’t know about you but I’ve always enjoyed working with them. Just to be clear, folks like Larry Ellison, Steve Jobs, or fictional fashion editor Miranda…

Sardaron wali baat – apology to my Sikh friends

Sardaron wali baat – apology to my Sikh friends

December 04, 20191 mins

(Circa 2010, a weekday morning at work) We had just wrapped up a conference call with our colleagues in San Francisco. I pressed the hang-up button, turned to my team members and uttered “Kaisa yeh…

Quitting in the age of vaping

Quitting in the age of vaping

July 18, 20194 mins

If vaping was a thing back in the early ’90’s, I seriously doubt I’d have quit smoking when I did. Not that it was easy. It took a year of umpteen failed attempts with quit streaks ranging from days…

Unlocking a superpower

Unlocking a superpower

May 04, 20195 mins

Decades ago, I went to bed with a raging headache. For the next 10 minutes, I performed a sequence somewhat like this – took my attention away from my forehead, imagined myself floating in the ether…

Mind is deeply blowing

Mind is deeply blowing

February 16, 20196 mins

[Title is a hat tip to the recent Bollywood masala flick where the character Simbba turns a perfectly legit American phrase into the endearingly Hinglish “mind is blowing”.] There’s much to say in…

A Sunday in Jakarta

A Sunday in Jakarta

April 08, 20181 mins

The best part of spending a Sunday in Jakarta is their car-free zone on Sudirman Road. A nearly 8km stretch of Sudirman Road (General Sudirman was the first commander-in-chief of Indonesian Armed…